One day a son came to his father for an advice:
– Dad, I can’t do this anymore, – he said, – those lessons only exhaust me, and the result doesn’t change. It must be not destined for me to play football and my dream will never come true.
The father looked at his son with loving eyes and said:
– You know son, every person in life has a dream, a goal of his life. They are the ones that make us do what we are doing, because it’s what we should do. We have to fight for what we believe in, what we feel. In other case, you will simply brake. Once – and for all. As thought you were never there. The easiest way is to quit everything and not go until the end, because the path is difficult and we are not used to inconveniences. We want everything to be easy and at once. But the wishes are fleeting! This is how our dream dies, and the goal becomes unreachable. Gradually, life becomes a routine without depth and meaning. Then one day, we try to forget and start everything from the beginning, we wait for a new day to make our life different. But new obstacles come in our way, and we stop again. We become full of despair and anger for our own helplessness. But you only need to remember one thing: never give up, fight, battle. It doesn’t matter that you have lost one battle and even dozens of battles. Life goes on! Your biggest enemies are hiding in you – laziness, fear, doubt, indecision. Be a warrior of your dream, a knight of your goal and a soldier of your wishes.
Believe you can and you’re halfway there.
Wednesday 1 July 2015
Ugliest Man In Uganda Welcomes His Eighth Baby
Godfrey Baguma has become a proud father of eight children after his wife Kate Namanda, 30, delivered a healthy baby girl. The couple now have six children together, while two others are kids from Baguma’s first unsuccessful marriage.
Sebabi, 47, got married to Kate Namanda, 30, in 2013 and she has given birth to his eighth child
The man, who suffers from an extremely rare, unknown disease, won his title of the ugliest country’s man after he took part in the contest to make money for his family. “In 2002, I was mending shoes, when some people approached me and said they had an event at which they wanted me to be a chief guest.
They took my pictures and a few days later, I saw my picture in the newspapers where I had declared myself the ugliest man alive. I was shocked and angry at the same time because I had not said so. They also told me that as a cobbler, I could not make enough money to sustain my family.
The man won his title of the ugliest country’s man in 2002
They asked me to participate in a contest, saying I would make more money since I would be a tourist attraction. I agreed, and indeed I won. That is how I got the nickname, Ssebabi, which means the ugliest of them all. Today, I feel good, about it because it is an honour
Godfrey and Kate live in a small house, bringing up all eight children and trying to make both ends meet, but they did not complain. Kate said: “Once you find a man you think is right for you, do not listen to what other people say. Follow your heart. Money and physical appearance should not be an issue.”
If you're sleeping with a woman that used to be a man, what does that make you? (photos)
PHOTO OF THE WEEK
SHE WOULD BE SO IRRITATED.
Romance
By Karen Card
Ever wonder why there was so much romance in the beginning of your
relationship, but not now? There may be a good reason. Most men, when
presented with a challenge in their life, will focus strongly on the
challenge until they have reached their goal or solved the problem.
Then, feeling proud of their accomplishment, they sit back and relax,
moving on when the next challenge arises. Unfortunately, many men look
at relationships in the same manner. The woman he is dating is the
challenge so he puts a lot of time, energy and focus into courting her
until he has "won" her. Once he is confident that she is committed to
him, he has reached his goal and can now sit back and relax. This is
very normal behavior for most men.
What men do not realize is that women need romance throughout the
relationship, not just at the beginning. When a man stops the romance,
which is something she really needs, many times the woman will stop
appreciating him, which is something he really needs, and the
relationship starts to decline. If his romantic behavior becomes stale
or predictable, she cannot continue to be excited about being with him.
It up to both partners to work to keep romance in their relationship.
Here are 5 tips to keep the romance alive:
1. Regular "Date Night": The most effective way to keep
romance alive is by going out on dates. Whether you are young and like
to party, or settled down with several children, a couple needs a "Date
Night" to keep the spark going in the romance department. To make Date
Night successful it needs to be just the two of you, out of the house,
including dinner and another activity (movie, dancing, walk on the
beach, etc.), without any talk about serious issues. The goal of Date
Night is to focus on being romantic - like you did at the beginning of
the relationship.
2. Let the man plan the date: To make Date Night more
romantic, the man should plan the dates, as he did at the beginning of
the relationship. When a man sets up and confirms the details of the
date, the woman feels special and cared for. While she may initially
have to request that he put in the extra effort required to plan and
execute the date, after he takes her out, he will be rewarded with her
appreciating him and his efforts.
3. Plan ahead: It is hard for women to appreciate a
date that is rushed and unplanned. The last thing she wants to hear is
him asking in the car, "What would you like to do tonight?" Men have the
power to keep the love alive, by making an effort to plan dates ahead
of time. Women love the excitement they get from looking forward to a
date which has been planned several days ahead of time. Try to have the
date plans in place by Wednesday for a weekend date.
Yes, it requires more thought and more energy on the man's part, but the
effort is worth it. This type of romance will put the spark back in
your relationship and she will respond to him with appreciation.
4. Focus on each other: An important part of Date Night
is having uninterrupted time to focus on each other. The rule is that
there will be no talking about the kids, the bills, or the problems of
the day. The conversation needs to be light and easy - after all, you
are on a date, not in a family meeting.
5. Do not get lazy: Just because you get settled into a
relationship, does not mean you should settle down. Although it is
easier to stay home and rent videos rather than going out to the movies,
do not take the lazy way out - it is a slow death to your love life.
Women need to let their partner know that they still need to have dates.
She needs to ask him to plan their dates in advance and take her out on
the town. Both partners need this. At the very least, try to have one
Date Night each month. Keeping the romance alive will keep the
relationship alive and healthy.
Both partners benefit by putting some effort into the romance department
of their relationship. Recognize that romance needs tending to
throughout the entire relationship - it does not stay hot and heavy
forever, unless you consciously make it happen. You have the power to
bring the romance back by bringing back the feelings you had at the
beginning of your relationship. Bring back Date Night.
Karen Card is a relationship expert/coach and has worked with hundreds
of individuals, teaching her proven techniques to obtain or strengthen a
relationship. She has earned a 93% success rate for her clients who
want more love in their lives.
She is author of 3 books: "How to Get More Love," "How to Get EVEN More
Love," and her latest, "MAN FACTS-10 Facts Women Must Know about Men."
Sexual Problems in Women - Topic Overview
What are sexual problems?
A sexual problem means that sex isn't
satisfying or positive for you. In women, common sexual problems include
feeling little or no interest in sex, having problems getting aroused,
or having trouble withorgasm. For some women, pain during intercourse is a problem.
Most women have a sexual problem at one
time or another. For some women, it's ongoing. But your symptoms are
only a sexual problem if they bother you or cause trouble in your
relationship.
There is no "normal" level of sexual response,
because it's different for every woman. You may also find that what's
normal at one stage of your life changes at another stage or age. For
example, it's common for a tired mother of a baby to have little
interest in sex.
And it's common for both women and men to have less intense sex drives
as they age. This is linked in part to hormone changes in the body.
What are some causes of sexual problems in women?
Female sexuality is complex. At its core is a need for closeness and intimacy.
Women also have physical needs. When there is a problem in either the
emotional or physical part of your life, you can have sexual problems.
Some common causes include:
- Emotional causes, such as stress, relationship problems, depression or anxiety, a memory of sexual trauma, and unhappiness with your body.
- Physical causes, such as hormone problems, pain from an injury or other problem, and certain conditions such as diabetes or arthritis.
- Aging, which can cause changes in the vagina, such as dryness and stiffening.
- Certain medicines that can cause sexual problems. These include medicines for depression, blood pressure, and diabetes.
What are the symptoms?
Sexual problems can include:
- Having less desire for sex.
- Having trouble feeling aroused.
- Not being able to have an orgasm.
- Having pain during intercourse.
How are sexual problems in women diagnosed?
Women often recognize a sexual problem
when they notice a change in desire or sexual satisfaction. When this
happens, it helps to look at what is and isn't working in the body and
in life. For example:
- Are you ill, or do you take a medicine that can lower your sexual desire or response?
- Are you stressed or often very tired?
- Do you have a caring, respectful connection with a partner?
- Do you and your partner have the time and privacy to relax together?
- Do you have painful memories about sex or intimacy?
Your doctor can help you decide what to do. He or she will ask questions, do aphysical exam, and talk to you about possible causes.
Some women find it hard to talk to
their doctor about sexual problems at first. Sometimes it helps to write
out what you want to say beforehand. For example, you could say
something like, "For the past few months, I haven't enjoyed sex as much
as I used to." Or you could say, "Ever since I started taking that
medicine, I haven't felt like having sex.
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